Sending messages is a great way to keep in touch with someone you like
You sent him a message, but you haven’t received a reply in a while. There is no doubt that you are wondering what it is about, that is, why he does not return your SMS. Sending messages is a great way to keep in touch with someone you like. However, what happens when there is no response from him? Your first instinct is without a doubt to switch to panic mode. You are already making a list in your head of the reasons why it potentially does not respond to your message, and none of them give you hope.
It’s very crowded
Although it sounds like a cliche, it really is one of the most logical explanations. Most of the time, when the guy you’re texting doesn’t reply to your SMS right away, he’s just doing something else at the moment. That “other” is not necessarily another girl, but he simply has other obligations such as training, work, or spending time with his family.
He needs space
Sometimes a girl when she is in love knows that she is exaggerating in sending messages to her lover. If he doesn’t respond to your message, you need to ask yourself if that might be the case with you. How often do you text him? Once, twice, or ten a day? Maybe the reason he doesn’t reciprocate is actually his way of providing himself with a little space.
His words are not his strong suit
If he doesn’t reply to your message seconds after you sent it to him, but still sends it to you after half an hour, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care, but that he is simply thinking of something nice to write to you. You should actually appreciate his effort in trying to find the right words. Give him some time to gather his thoughts and he will answer you when he is ready.