A man says he is addicted to pornography but blames his wife for it. He seeks advice from Dear Deidre, The Sun’s sexual and relationship counselor.
“I’m happily married but I’m addicted to pornography. I have both sent and received sex videos and messages from strangers online and my wife was finding out. But I really think it’s her fault, “says the man.
“I have been doing this for several years and trying to quit. My wife is very angry, she threatened to leave me with our two boys. I promised this was the first and only time I did this, but she must take some responsibility too. We are in our thirties and sometimes only have sex two or three times a week. That is not enough, “he says.
“In my country, the rules are strict, it is not okay to pass out and have sex outside of marriage. I dream of living in an open European society where I can do what I want. ”
Deidre points out that in European countries it is generally not okay to cheat on one’s spouse.
“Unless it is done with the consent of both parties. To pass is to pass, even if it is online. You’re trying to blame her for that, but you know it’s wrong. ”